I love making videos and writing and talking.  It's all part of happiness for me.  Doing what I enjoy is part of the happiness cycle.  Understanding that I'm doing it all is a big part of happiness too.  You can't be happy until you stop blaming others for your misery.  You will not find happiness until you stop expecting others to give it to you.  It's not in those experiences nor does anyone else hold it for you.  Happiness is all about you.

Happiness is a state of mind.  It has nothing to do with anyone or anything else.  It doesn't depend on money, or stuff, or experiences.  It's where you live mentally and emotionally, no matter what's going on around you.  Close your eyes and just imagine being happy.  What does it feel like?  What does it look like?  Notice how happiness, joy, begins filling you up.  It changes everything.  You begin looking at the world through the eyes of being happy with yourself.  It's closely connected to love.  Love for yourself. 

Loving yourself in complete acceptance is key to happiness too.  What do you say about yourself when no one is listening?  That might be part of the reason happiness evades you.  I talk with and coach people with loads of money but little happiness.  How can that be?  You'd think that those with money to do whatever they please would be overflowing with happiness and joy, but often, they are miserable.

Where does that misery come from?  What is the answer to it all?  How can you be happy?  Take the first step and honestly acknowledge if you are lined up with your soul.  Are you thinking, feeling and doing only those things in such a way that are in line with your own integrity?  It's challenging to be happy when you fill your day with words and actions opposite happiness.  Are you using the excuse that you're just doing your job?  Get another job!  Find things that are in line with who you know you are.

Find a new way to live your life that's in line with how you want to live.  Happiness is a state of mind dependent totally upon you to exercise it. Exercise love, kindness and integrity in every aspect of your living.  Change your environment if necessary to give happiness plenty of room to expand. 

Happiness is a state of mind determined by you, your thoughts, actions, expectations, words and deeds.  Only as you live happiness will happiness be your companion.  Be happy.  Live Happy!

I'd be delighted to work with you.  Look around the site, perhaps a little guidance would benefit you.